Now Grandpa got remarried and moves to Florida for 6 months of the year when all of his family is here in Minnesota. With this change the daytrips to visit his kids and grandkids disappeared. Gone also are birthday presents, and this year Christmas presents. Well we did get presents, but it was more of an insult really. He cleaned out the storeroom and split up whatever he found evenly. I know I have it better than others but compared to what I've experienced my whole life, this is a far second. It's obviously not about the presents, but they serve as an example of the change. Its about the sincere desire to be there and the genuine love everyone felt at the gatherings that is not there anymore.
I just got a Christmas card from him in the mail. Said he was loving the sun in Florida and they signed it "Grandpa and Grandma." Don't get me wrong, she's a nice person and my grandpa is happy with her. Being married to him doesn't make her my grandma though. That is a role and a void that will never be filled again. I feel like its disrespecting my grandmother to call herself by the same name.